I'm not a big fan of women... it's more of a generalized thing, cause I know there's quite a many great women out there. I have a handful of female friends as well (not that I respect them all the time.) I have just always been a better friend with guys because you don't have to deal with all the drama and the woman issues.
Lately, I've been thinking about this one thing that women do that absolutely drives me INSANE. Why do women take men back that cheat? Why? I mean, do you really think he's not going to do it again? Clearly he doesn't respect you and clearly you don't respect yourself. I could handle a great many things in a relationship, but not being cheated on. If I'm not good enough, so be it, I'd rather be alone or wait for someone who thinks I'm special *gag*. But it has got to be humiliating to be cheated on, but then when a woman takes the guy back, it's like... are you serious?! And don't get me started on when the man cheats multiple times. Case in point, my friend Sharlyne was talking to me about this girl she knows that I've heard about. I said to her (cause I'm a gossiping old biddy) "did you hear so and so cheats on so and so all the time?" her response was, "oh yeah, everyone knows." (don't judge my spelling, capitalization or grammar cause it's a blog yo!) So I say to Sharlyne, "but they aren't married and they don't have kids, so why not break it off? Is [said female] really that desperate? Is her self esteem that low?" And Sharky says to me, "actually they're trying to have a baby."
My jaw drops.
I shake my head.
Bile rises up in my throat.
We immediately end the discussion. Cause seriously, I no longer blame the dude... she lets him do it and he's with an idiot, so what does she expect?
I know I am coming across harshly, but women, grow some backbones here! No, I'm not a feminazi in the slightest, you won't catch me on a corner burning my bra and manbashing. I just don't get it. There is no way that these women can't find another man somewhere down the road. And why do they need a man anyway? How about taking the time to gain some self esteem and realize that we are all special and deserve to be respected.
And that is your lesson for the day.